tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post115403895806058533..comments2023-10-24T03:51:26.482-04:00Comments on Virginia Belle: #3 Today...Virginia Bellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09139549722127680662noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-1154556385677465392006-08-02T18:06:00.000-04:002006-08-02T18:06:00.000-04:00Blue lip liner lady just came in. Luckily, she di...Blue lip liner lady just came in. Luckily, she did not ask me a question. Very strange.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-1154114597266350252006-07-28T15:23:00.000-04:002006-07-28T15:23:00.000-04:00Okay I'm leaving this comment because i'm neutral ...Okay I'm leaving this comment because i'm neutral and i've just started reading your blog, and I like it and I'll be back and I think neutral is often helpful. <BR/><BR/>here we go.. <BR/>by the way, i'm Raquita, nice to meet you<BR/><BR/>anywho - here we go. <BR/><BR/>truth is, men are simple. and this guy may be sincere in his desire to not be alone, he's also sincere in his refusal to put forth the effort to build with you. <BR/>example - I have a friend who dated a man for eight years only to leave him after the umteenth time he stated he wasn't ready for marriage/commitment, truth was he wasn't ready to marry HER - he married another woman with in a year. <BR/>it happened to me too, I dated a man for eight years, we broke up and he married one of the reasons we broke up with in six months. <BR/>Men go after the woman they want, they change and sacarafice, they make it happen when its what they want. there is no such thing as not enough time, or too many commitments, or too much work. They move things, change habits, find ways off - they sleep in your presence if they have to so you know they want to be with you, and thats how you know. <BR/>If you wanna just date this guy while you kick around the field, by almeans i'm all for dating openly, but if you are looking to settle down - then don't settle, the right man who wants to make it work and knows you are what he wants will come. I promise. and when it happens - you will have to work at the relationship - but you shouldn't have to work to know he's the one. <BR/><BR/>pleasure meeting you, sincerely, <BR/><BR/>Raquita <BR/><BR/>truth of the matterRaquitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10917945898779826768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-1154110564234879862006-07-28T14:16:00.000-04:002006-07-28T14:16:00.000-04:00I have to tell you...before you were telling us wh...I have to tell you...before you were telling us what you really said..I was hoping that you said okay. <BR/><BR/>I dont know why. Maybe because I would have said okay. And it might be disasterous..but sometimes when you care about someone you take what you can get because a little of someone is better than none. <BR/><BR/>I have major goodbye issues though...<BR/><BR/>I hope you make the right decision for you...Kellihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06146952260883527437noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-1154109838399991362006-07-28T14:03:00.000-04:002006-07-28T14:03:00.000-04:00Ma'ams - It's Lady Starfish. I agree with Charles...Ma'ams - It's Lady Starfish. I agree with Charleston Guy. I know you love repo and you want to "work things out" but Charleston is right when he said that he would make time for you if he wanted to do so. Here is what is going to happen. You are going to pretend like you are okay with this situation - lie to yourself, if you will. Then the old feelings are going to creep back in - you will confront Repo - he will not have changed at all and will still have his excuse attitude - you will get upset and realize that not only have you been wasting time, but also feel used. Not good. But I also know that a woman in love will do what she wants and has already made her mind up to what she is going to do. So I will be here no matter what. Sorry for the long blog but they are monitoring our email at work - f*cking Corporate America.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-1154099713327658192006-07-28T11:15:00.000-04:002006-07-28T11:15:00.000-04:00I agree, as long as you think he is worth it, stay...I agree, as long as you think he is worth it, stay around and see if things progress.Jonathanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04741628474644880465noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-1154099429549205792006-07-28T11:10:00.000-04:002006-07-28T11:10:00.000-04:00I haven't had much experience with this but I feel...I haven't had much experience with this but I feel inclined to comment anyway. I tend to agree with the top two comments. See if you can make it work for you but definitely don't put your life on hold. At least this way you'll know for sure.sassafrashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03452519826561552924noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-1154098722831815752006-07-28T10:58:00.000-04:002006-07-28T10:58:00.000-04:00DO NOT CANCEL YOUR PLANS WITH YOUR FRIEND FOR THIS...DO NOT CANCEL YOUR PLANS WITH YOUR FRIEND FOR THIS GUY~<BR/>Serious, you have plans you should tell him as much.<BR/>If you do see him you will be back in the funnel cloud and swept up with all those old emotions ect.<BR/>Have no time for him and see what he does if he is persistant then make plans on another day.Random Musingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14109757741210625162noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-1154097702138760512006-07-28T10:41:00.000-04:002006-07-28T10:41:00.000-04:00I mean this in the most loving way but as Greg Beh...I mean this in the most loving way but as Greg Behrendt so famously said, he's just not that into you. Walk away. You can meet the right guy when your spending time with someone who's not that into you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-1154097084557535362006-07-28T10:31:00.000-04:002006-07-28T10:31:00.000-04:00Relationships definitely take hard work. What you ...Relationships definitely take hard work. What you have to decide is if the work is worth the results. And perhaps you won't know til you try. <BR/><BR/>With my situation, our relationship has definitely been a lot of work. The payoff has been phenomenal and it was worth all the extra effort and pain. <BR/><BR/>If you decide he's worth struggling for, set some firm ground rules and don't let yourself come last.Gypsyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14327359141716141220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-1154095454958131512006-07-28T10:04:00.000-04:002006-07-28T10:04:00.000-04:00did you just say taco bell??? *swoons*keep us post...did you just say taco bell??? *swoons*<BR/><BR/>keep us posted on repo!Becky at lifeoutoffocushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08281237800161723776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-1154094435100951432006-07-28T09:47:00.000-04:002006-07-28T09:47:00.000-04:00Blue? did you hit her?Blue? did you hit her?NotCarriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08141505246848580782noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-1154053859457330262006-07-27T22:30:00.000-04:002006-07-27T22:30:00.000-04:00I couldn't read past the blue lip liner... so I di...I couldn't read past the blue lip liner... so I didn't get to the rest of your blog... much too distracted with visual.Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16582197758495130139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-1154049296630354382006-07-27T21:14:00.000-04:002006-07-27T21:14:00.000-04:00I've also been there, and I'd give the same advice...I've also been there, and I'd give the same advice as red. If you can be happy with the situation as is, knowing that it is possible that it isn't going to change any time soon (if ever) then give him a chance. Otherwise get on with your life. What's to say that you couldn't get back together later on if he does end up being ready for a real relationship. You don't necessarily have to make yourself a lady in waiting now. Just don't sell yourself short!CThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01038230817548569021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-1154043128191201762006-07-27T19:32:00.000-04:002006-07-27T19:32:00.000-04:00I've been in that situation before, but I'm not go...I've been in that situation before, but I'm not going to go into it in the comment section. <BR/><BR/>What I will say is that you have to decide if half of his attention is enough for you, at least for now anyway, because it sounds like that's about what you'd be getting. Just don't put your life on hold so he can ding around and keep you on the back burner. It's no fun, trust me.. Been there..Mrs. S.https://www.blogger.com/profile/03761888051349398776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-1154042448172608612006-07-27T19:20:00.000-04:002006-07-27T19:20:00.000-04:00I think you need to make a list of the pros and co...I think you need to make a list of the pros and cons. As unromantic as it sounds. I keep thinking too, what's the worst thing that would happen? That you'd hang around him once a week and wait for him to get his shit straightened out. Maybe it gets straightened out, maybe not. You'll loose some time in your life you can't get back, but maybe he'll get his shit together and it'll work out. I'm a risk taker, I say try it and if doesn't work out then at least you tried.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com