tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post8314141815026831479..comments2023-10-24T03:51:26.482-04:00Comments on Virginia Belle: Back in the SaddleVirginia Bellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09139549722127680662noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-44832424311696416142010-12-09T12:28:58.588-05:002010-12-09T12:28:58.588-05:00Oh wow I just saw this. Pretty embarrassing. Sor...Oh wow I just saw this. Pretty embarrassing. Sorry about that. I was having a hard time back then. I would have asked you myself but I was having trouble getting in touch with you. Anyway that was pretty stupid. Sorry about that.wfboland77https://www.blogger.com/profile/12862316999404661359noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-22299263883556206292010-05-13T21:37:33.252-04:002010-05-13T21:37:33.252-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.Debrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08326688903509923324noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-76163340664680874772010-05-12T22:18:33.344-04:002010-05-12T22:18:33.344-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.Debrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08326688903509923324noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-85877044103202553842010-05-06T15:43:52.302-04:002010-05-06T15:43:52.302-04:00So he finally moved out? Wow, I can't believe...So he finally moved out? Wow, I can't believe you survived that long of a period of awkwardness.<br /><br />"All the stuff I like to do (baking, coffee shop hanging, Target-shopping, antiquing) is stuff that a straight guy wouldn't be caught dead doing."<br /><br />You're damn right about that. Those are, in fact, the complete opposite of straight guy acivities (frying, bar hanging, Walmart-shopping, and new techno-gadgets.)Phantom Haterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16201889982177934778noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-64141963975226527342010-05-02T23:23:04.060-04:002010-05-02T23:23:04.060-04:00Biggest piece of advice, never turn down an invita...Biggest piece of advice, never turn down an invitation. Your friends have friends. Hopefully not all gay ones (for your sake).<br /><br />Just get out of your house. No one meets anyone sitting on their couch :)<br /><br />I also think that Ex-F being away means more posts. Win for us!Scottyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09468559689572078636noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-11012107159613509832010-04-29T23:04:34.488-04:002010-04-29T23:04:34.488-04:00I don't if it's just me, but when I went o...I don't if it's just me, but when I went out with the goal of meeting cute guys nothing ever happened. I'd go to bars or clubs, dying to meet someone, and NOTHING. However, when I didn't really care about finding someone I'd repeatedly get hit on. I don't know, maybe it's a vibe or something. I guess what I'm trying to say is go out, have fun, but not obsess over meeting someone (easier said than done I know).Lady Wanderlusthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14776544530807096284noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-5352224276261799762010-04-28T12:36:12.965-04:002010-04-28T12:36:12.965-04:00I haven't been here for a while and have reall...I haven't been here for a while and have really missed reading your blog.<br /><br />Perhaps going out more with Frenemy will get you some exposure to new guys.?donhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13943762436600028853noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-67877996934302905392010-04-27T23:57:57.271-04:002010-04-27T23:57:57.271-04:00It sounds like you are doing a lot of the right th...It sounds like you are doing a lot of the right things there. Dating is hard! Meeting people to date is hard. I don't know if there is something other than eHarmony for singles in your area, but there are bound to be singles' groups somewhere. Also, your married friends might have husbands who have some single friends who are wanting to get married. It doesn't hurt to float that idea out there.Fluffycathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05428451230435663963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-39456807464079394122010-04-25T17:50:19.596-04:002010-04-25T17:50:19.596-04:00Even with you being broke-dy broke broke, I think ...Even with you being broke-dy broke broke, I think things will be better once Ex-F has moved out. <br /><br />I did eharmony for awhile. It was just was not for me. I have a close friend that is involved with a few meetup.com groups and she really enjoys them. <br /><br />Like the others said, you did not "eff" up. We all have different paths and one is not better than the other. I tell myself that all the time when I look back on my lifeplans and how it has all turned out to this point. <br /><br />Oh and when I had an ex-girlfriend try to fix me up with one of her friends I said no thanks. Just all around wrong in my book. <br /><br />Enjoy your life and things will fall into place.Jonathanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04741628474644880465noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-81417768295130802672010-04-25T14:28:21.898-04:002010-04-25T14:28:21.898-04:00I agree with TB, you didn't eff up. it is muc...I agree with TB, you didn't eff up. it is much worse to be with the wrong person than to be alone. (and you KNOW that...) It is more difficult to meet people when you are older, but I met J. when I was 40, had been divorced for 9 years AND had just broken up with a long term boyfriend in the worst way. I promise that the universe will bring you something - and someone - wonderful. You are brave and strong and deserve it!columbiacitygirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12593251869047179712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-60739055954151706452010-04-25T11:46:12.133-04:002010-04-25T11:46:12.133-04:00You didn't eff up! There is no such thing as ...You didn't eff up! There is no such thing as effing up in life and love. You have to trust that the universe brought you hear as a step on your journey to meet Mr. Right.<br /><br />I'm sending you good vibes. You're doing the right thing, by making yourself get out there and meet people. One of my friends met her husband through a women's group - sure, it was all women, but they all had brothers and brothers-in-law and male friends, and boom! The more people you know, statistically the more likely you'll meet him. He's looking for you, too!<br /><br />Good vibes, good vibes. You are lovely and amazing and the universe will conspire to bring you and Mr. VB together!!teahousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06222848511993932548noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-43111938157177884542010-04-24T18:28:24.309-04:002010-04-24T18:28:24.309-04:00have you tried meetup.com? you can search for your...have you tried meetup.com? you can search for your city and find hobbies, organizations and other groups that interest you. a great way to meet new people.Christinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08368645546731217608noreply@blogger.com