tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post8468218945373352062..comments2023-10-24T03:51:26.482-04:00Comments on Virginia Belle: Thursday 13: Tips for GuysVirginia Bellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09139549722127680662noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-51527621844727604012007-08-09T10:46:00.000-04:002007-08-09T10:46:00.000-04:00These posts are incredibly interesting. Obviously ...These posts are incredibly interesting. Obviously they don't apply to all girls. Some are more "womans lib", some are more "tom boyish", and some are more high maintenance. so its different for each girl. But in general, its good advice that you really can't go wrong with.<BR/><BR/>It would be interesting to write this from a guys perspective. Its a lot shorter, but there are the things that girls could do better.<BR/><BR/>Its also fun to get to see into your mind. If you ever date one of your readers he'll already be trained :)Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03859542726559989246noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-63521551102861660062007-08-08T23:01:00.000-04:002007-08-08T23:01:00.000-04:00Disagreeing with one part of #6, I am not gay and...Disagreeing with one part of #6, I am not gay and yet I always compliment women on their outfit, shoes and/or hair style. I've never been rebuffed by that kind of compliment. Women spend a lot of time on those 3 things and a guy actually noticing and saying something should earn points.KingBobhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04536347184061604599noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-5208259329133044602007-08-08T15:33:00.000-04:002007-08-08T15:33:00.000-04:00kraig -- i really appreciate your honesty! i'm alw...kraig -- i really appreciate your honesty! i'm always interested in rebuttals and alternate views on this stuff. i am by no means an expert on dating or the opposite sex. actually, just thinking that is laughable to me. i suck at dating. perhaps these posts are more just wishful thinking?? i will look at the link.Virginia Bellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09139549722127680662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-9296568492837822282007-08-08T13:10:00.000-04:002007-08-08T13:10:00.000-04:00"i think the vast majority of men are all the same..."i think the vast majority of men are all the same. their priorities include: sex, sports, boobs, beer, doing well at work, being able to quote movies, proving how tough they are and their penises."<BR/><BR/>-That part made me laugh. the movie part is awesome.<BR/><BR/>This is quite an amusing post. Its a lot of good advice. It doesn't always work, but its better than the approach most guys use.<BR/><BR/>I am maliciously tempted to prove the exact opposite approach can work too, minus the under age part. No perviness for me<BR/><BR/>If you get a change, It would be cool to get your opinion on this:<BR/>http://dmiessler.com/blogarchive/the-nice-guy-paradox-solved<BR/><BR/>And yes. Guys are visually oriented. I'll admit if you catch my eye because you look good. I'm much more likely to want to get to know you. Its horribly shallow, but its naturally instinctive.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03859542726559989246noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-87016953880659339232007-08-06T11:20:00.000-04:002007-08-06T11:20:00.000-04:00actually, stuckey, you can bite me.*sticks out ton...actually, stuckey, you can bite me.<BR/><BR/>*sticks out tongue*Virginia Bellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09139549722127680662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-13220626661756583722007-08-06T10:23:00.000-04:002007-08-06T10:23:00.000-04:00I use the word "actually" a lot myself, actually. ...I use the word "actually" a lot myself, actually. I've actually had to edit it out of a couple posts.Phantom Haterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16201889982177934778noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-90306386391329417242007-08-06T09:23:00.000-04:002007-08-06T09:23:00.000-04:00I didn't get past the first sentence of this post,...I didn't get past the first sentence of this post, because you used the word "actually" twice.<BR/><BR/>:)Stuckhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17806212590717745000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-20748297330465708582007-08-03T19:01:00.000-04:002007-08-03T19:01:00.000-04:00perhaps... but perhaps I just enjoy picking fights...perhaps... but perhaps I just enjoy picking fights :-)Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16582197758495130139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-29000083277562007692007-08-03T16:28:00.000-04:002007-08-03T16:28:00.000-04:00LOL! you guys crack me up.MJ, guys are attracted t...LOL! you guys crack me up.<BR/><BR/>MJ, guys are attracted to certain types just as girls are. I'm referring to how we think vs. how men think. men are pretty simple to figure out. women? not so much.<BR/><BR/>am i generalizing? of course. <BR/><BR/>but is it generally true? i think so. <BR/><BR/>perhaps we have miscommunicated?Virginia Bellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09139549722127680662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-15172943829720264772007-08-03T15:29:00.000-04:002007-08-03T15:29:00.000-04:00~mj Yeah, MJ, way to put the foot in the mouth wit...~mj <BR/>Yeah, MJ, way to put the foot in the mouth with that one. As if VB doesn't already have a complex. :)<BR/><BR/>I think women are just as visual-oriented when it comes to initial attraction as men. I agree that you can pretty much decide instantly if you are attracted to someone or not, but that doesn't necessarily mean you will always act on it, and it doesn't mean that you won't have an attraction build over time. Stop reading Cosmo for advice. :)Phantom Haterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16201889982177934778noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-83410019655628225092007-08-03T14:07:00.000-04:002007-08-03T14:07:00.000-04:00I should print this out and just hand it to every ...I should print this out and just hand it to every guy who approaches me... ug, then I'll probably scare away the nice ones too - good post though! :PRebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08763110683087512959noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-91202536985435805472007-08-03T14:06:00.000-04:002007-08-03T14:06:00.000-04:00I don't mean YOU and ALL GUYS... my last sentence ...I don't mean YOU and ALL GUYS... my last sentence sounds horrible! Let me rephrase: a certain girl just might not be what a certain guy is looking for.... er, something.Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16582197758495130139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-57113281015102660132007-08-03T14:05:00.000-04:002007-08-03T14:05:00.000-04:00I'm going have to insert a rebuttal. If all guys ...I'm going have to insert a rebuttal. <BR/><BR/>If all guys were the same, they would all go for the same kind of girl. You will get a guy that loves quirky, silly girls... and a guy that finds them annoying. You are who you are, and certainly should not act like a hair-flipping mannequin to get a guy's attention if he's not going to be interested no matter what you do. <BR/><BR/>I read an article lately that says it takes guys 30 second to figure out if he's attracted to a girl. It takes a girl 90 seconds. Why? because guys are, and will always be, creatures of sight.... and you just might not be what they're looking for.Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16582197758495130139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-75273834219308649532007-08-03T13:56:00.000-04:002007-08-03T13:56:00.000-04:00m -- how do you make that little heart thingie bef...m -- how do you make that little heart thingie before the "m"? i don't have a heart button on my keyboard...oh. and thanks for the compliment!<BR/><BR/>MJ -- yeah, inside my head, i'm WAY more confident and flirty than i am in reality. i'm actually still at the shyness level i was when i was 3 and clinging to my mom's dress. :p tee hee. dang, you sure are calling me out on this post. and i'm going to have to disagree w/you. i think the vast majority of men are all the same. their priorities include: sex, sports, boobs, beer, doing well at work, being able to quote movies, proving how tough they are and their penises.<BR/><BR/>coffeesnob -- newsflash: i AM bossy. you're just now figuring that out?? LOL<BR/><BR/>dummy -- thanks! yeah, i was worried it was too long....but apparently, people are reading it.<BR/><BR/>PH -- thank you. your reading comprehension skills impress me. but i don't think i'm the only girl this post applies to. <BR/><BR/>fluffycat -- you're welcome. yes, i wish more men realized we are all unique. :)<BR/><BR/>rwa -- thank you. no, i haven't. as if the above comments are not evidence enough for why i need to avoid writing such a book, my methods have yet to be proven. so far, everything i do blows up in my face. maybe if i ever have a successful, healthy and long term relationship.....ask me then!Virginia Bellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09139549722127680662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-51588715889745033792007-08-03T12:15:00.000-04:002007-08-03T12:15:00.000-04:00"Does she have an actual brain in her head, or do ..."Does she have an actual brain in her head, or do you really just want to bang her?"<BR/><BR/>"...well, unless she's underage, in which case, you're a big perv..."<BR/><BR/>"No means no, motherfucker."<BR/><BR/><BR/>That's an outstanding list. Well done. Have you ever considered writing a self-help/how-to book?Southern (in)Sanityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08161448234899521650noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-24385455349258272972007-08-03T12:04:00.000-04:002007-08-03T12:04:00.000-04:00VB - you are awesome! Keep up the good work with ...VB - you are awesome! Keep up the good work with this, and maybe some of the men will catch on. I really like the thing about them figuring out what they want first...Fluffycathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05428451230435663963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-38721921527361499972007-08-03T11:00:00.000-04:002007-08-03T11:00:00.000-04:00Let's sum up this post in one sentence:"...then ag...Let's sum up this post in one sentence:<BR/><BR/>"...then again, every woman is different....."<BR/><BR/>There's no reason to look for signs like tossing the hair, batting her eyes, etc. If a girl really likes you, she's a little nervous and probably over-smiley and touchy-feely. Unless you're scary-looking, in which case she is nervous for a different reason. <BR/><BR/>Good post, though. At least now all your readers know how to ask you out. CN, are you reading?Phantom Haterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16201889982177934778noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-6902881071266241082007-08-02T23:48:00.000-04:002007-08-02T23:48:00.000-04:00Hey VB - this is something that should probably be...Hey VB - this is something that should probably be posted on sites like Match.com - you'll be doing a lot of guys a favor if they only knew this stuff!The Dummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12434608448734300612noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-16905063048644423022007-08-02T21:45:00.000-04:002007-08-02T21:45:00.000-04:00thoughtful. helpful (your intention in compiling t...thoughtful. helpful (your intention in compiling this list). but too prescriptive/bossy.<BR/><BR/>although #6 (no lines, please) can't be said often enough.coffeesnobhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07085484301616614262noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-70425749599397720442007-08-02T21:44:00.000-04:002007-08-02T21:44:00.000-04:00Ha! I love how it ends: Even though you might no...Ha! I love how it ends: Even though you might not have a chance in hell with most girls out there, here are the ways you can ask ME out.<BR/><BR/>You leave no guarantees that these tactics will impress anyone... even you. good call!<BR/><BR/>No matter how many times I hear otherwise: all guys are different, too. If they're interested, they'll let you know, and won't let you go.Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16582197758495130139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-78463068330790237352007-08-02T21:37:00.000-04:002007-08-02T21:37:00.000-04:00I got stuck on #4, then I'll come back... but I mu...I got stuck on #4, then I'll come back... but I must say that you may WISH you give off all those great signs of interest to guys you like.... but you're really much more of a jibbering shy gal. How do I know? when I actually like someone, I'm the same way.Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16582197758495130139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18879154.post-51418113066846928562007-08-02T20:14:00.000-04:002007-08-02T20:14:00.000-04:00This is a post that every man MUST read! Thank you...This is a post that every man MUST read! Thank you, darling, for pointing these things out!<BR/><BR/>♥ M♥ Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17302039897406743069noreply@blogger.com